Okay so me and my boyfriend started having sex not too long ago, and every time we are doing it it's hard for ME to get an orgasm. It's a good and bad pain when he's inside me, a feeling I don't mind. But it's just hard for me to enjoy it as I wish I could. Like I've heard so many say that sex feels awesome and that it's the best feeling and blah blah blah but idk if it's just because we're new to this or what? I enjoy doing it but I just really thought it was going to be a better feeling?