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Feeling Embarassed

Last night my husband lost his erection while having sex. We didn't finish and I felt hurt by it. For the past couple of months we have been TTC baby #2 and each time we get to my fertile period things like losing his erection or taking an extremely long time to get off (which normally I wouldn't mind except he doesn't seem into it or he seems like he's somewhere else).

Tonight I asked him about it and it turned into this heated argument and he said maybe it would be better if we didn't have sex at all until we got to my fertile period. I found this odd but he said I was overthinking things and that he still found me attractive (I have some insecurities about my body since having a child) and that he does want a 2nd child.

What do you ladies think? Am I over thinking or does something seem off?

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