Ttc 2nd month

Hello ladies, this is my second month ttc and af is due on the 30th ( in a couple of days). Last month a week before i had lower back pain cramps and moody, this month i feel nothing, only tugs and light cramping and a little bit of boob soreness, and little lower back pain, i took 2 pregnancy tests one 8days dpo and the other 10 days dpo and both negative :-/ (maybe too soon to tell). Im just confused because last month by now i really felt like af was going to show her face,and it did. This time around it's different, i don't want to get my hopes up, but can't help but notice the difference this month. Lots of love and baby dust to you all ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨