Stressed and depressed!!!!!

Is it wrong to just shut down and just focus on myself for Awhile being married and having a child is hard work but some people just don't see it that way but yet I still manage to take care of my responsibilities even when dealing with vergito it seems like there's never ME TIME I'm always trying to do for others when they really seem to careless about what I need etc feel like I could jus blow up I'm jus like enough is enough