Men think so different its irritating

So we are getting some food from a sub shop. I carried my son (8 months) to the table with my daughter who is 6 years old while my husband stands in line. He comes back to the table with just food only for me and him. He knows my daughter can't eat cheese but he offers some of his cheese covered sub anyways. he just sits there and begins to eat!!! Just ugh. Does your SO do things that are just so backwards or am I just dealing with it?