Curious 🤔‼️‼️

Okay so most of my friends have tried some of the obvious you know; bj, sex, got fingered, gotten head and I'm the only who hasn't before you continue let's clear this up NO IM NOT FOLLOWING THEM OR WANT TO BECAUSE THEY DID but ... some dudes I talked to offered and I just didn't budge I honestly WANT TO try some of the things but a lil scared I mean you have to live life and try some things but I just don't know 🙄like does it hurt? Any advice???😕