Military wife needs help!

Des
Hey guys! I posted about this once before but never really got any advice just personal stories which is great but I honestly need help. So about 5 months ago I moved to D.C. to be with my high school sweetheart, he's in the military and we are newly married and I'm coming from Washington state so it's literally a completely different world for me and I just don't know how to adapt... We live off base and I'm finding it so hard to make friends. I had a job but found out I was pregnant so my husband wanted me to stay home. He has a couple buddies that have wives but they are all almost 30 and I'm only 19 so I just feel like a baby and so out of place. I've looked into groups and such here with no luck. Has anyone else had this problem? Maybe someone knows a solution? I could really use the help. I've honestly been thinking about just going back home... I'm honestly depressed and I just need some advice.