OB change

So I'm 20 weeks and absolutely hated my Ob drs and I looked into all obs for my insurance and none were near close enough or had more than a two star review so i changed my insurance too a better one. And go on the website that list all obs I can go to and start too look up reviews on them . And every time I find one that I'm like okay let's try this one I call and they don't take my insurance so I decided to directly call my insurance and ask them to send me a list of those who take my insurance and she wanted too call around for me I said no I would like a list because I want too choose . But nope I got call your regular dr see who they prefer you to go too and look on website which I had already done . I feel so lost my insurance still covers my Ob but I don't wanna go on a 40 min drive for a 5 minute appointment nor do I want to deliver 40 minutes away at a hospital I don't want to deliver at . So exhausted with this all