I hate when people say that someone's "baby" is only cells or a fetus and then they down play whatever concern or question the person has like they're stupid for being concerned about their unborn child, or they have some questions about other's experiences.

I get it, I understand you view it as cells or an embryo, but this person views it as their baby. Don't talk down to them like your word choice makes something less of a concern for them. Don't put baby in quotes. It is their baby. Let them enjoy that feeling without cutting them down. That woman is a mother already in her heart. And those cells are her baby from the word go. Build those emotions within her, don't cut her down.