He was holding his head up and turning it and focusing from birth even the midwives noticed it and than at his one week check on the exam table with the doctor and me he rolled over and now he smiles and coos and is very active also. As far as me I am ending my first period already thank god it almost over and after I had him I hardly bleed just a couple lite days and a little discharge spotting all other days but stopped a week before my period started on the 29th of July. I have been having sex since the day we came home and had no pain with that and no cramping after except when I was breastfeeding the first week after that I stopped. I had an all natural birth in a tub with midwives and was released in four hours. Best birth yet. Which was my eighth.