Sex anyone?

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Our baby just turned 12 weeks Tuesday. We have had sex once, 2 1/2 weeks ago. We are both so tired becuase he is working days and I work evenings, plus I am in school for my masters degree.

We are hoping to go get bed early tonight and enjoy our time together after she is asleep. It's weird to pencil in having sex.

What are other people doing?

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On a positive note, we looked forward to our "date" and although we were exhausted, we had a great time reconnecting!

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My hubby was so scared of hurting me too. I bought KY and put it in his night stand. He asked me why and I explained that breastfeeding can be drying ... He went dry slow when we first started and asked me a million times if I was ok.

The first time Pp was weird but we talked our way through it.

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I haven't had sex with my husband four nearly 5mos.  I am 10wks pp.  I'm not sure if he just isn't attracted to me, or uninterested.  I try not to think about it because it upsets me.  :(

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I'm 12 weeks pp and have also only had sex with so once since I was 33 weeks pregnant. That was only after we spent an evening reminiscing about how we were when we first started out and couldn't see each other without doing it. It hurt like hell this time round and now I think he's worried about hurting me again. Its bad but I dont particularly miss the sex, just miss that closeness with him. I also worry that he'll resent me for it

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Lol I feel you, we only have sex on the weekends at night, otherwise it doesn't happen.

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I don't think it's weird with having new baby and like you said your both working and you're completing your masters. I think it's really good you are trying to find time for each other! Xx

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My husband and I "pencil" sex into our busy schedule all the time. I think it's something to look forward to and let's us both know that we are still excited to get frisky with each other!

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My LO will be 3 months on Wednesday I have not had sexy with my husband. He is tired at night and I am tired in the morning. I miss being intimate with him. We snuggle in bed. We will keep trying. 😘

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I am hoping once she starts day care in September, and I go back to working day, that perhaps we can be more spontaneous. She doesn't sleep during the day, so we only have our night time together when she is sleeping 6-8 hours

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Id like to know too! We are sooo tired and it's no fun when it's "scheduled". The most success we've had is when we got to go on a date and then we came home and got down😜. But that was only like the 3rd time doing it. I can't wait for things to go back to normal. If they ever do!! #frustrated

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