Okay ladies so I'm starting to accept the fact that I am a first-timer and this baby is not going to come early .....he is comfortable he is not dropping she is not showing any signs of anything but being comfortable where he is ...I have no pressure in my pelvis or vaginal area no back pain no preterm symptoms at all ....so I am going to start trying the evening primrose oil and the red raspberry leaf tea sex is out of the question so we shall see... I will be 36 weeks in a few days and my doc is going to check my cervix at 37 so wish me luck :)