"not allowed" to complain

There are few things that bother me more than women on this site telling moms that they "shouldn't complain", or that they "should count their blessings". I apologize if you've had a difficult time conceiving or have suffered a loss but this is a safe place for moms to express how they're feeling... If they can't voice they're complains here, where can they?!

Make sure your hands are clean before you point fingers.