11 dpo today...

I'm 11 dpo today. I confirmed O date by temping and OPKs. My temps are still up and AF is due in 3 days. I do not have any AF symptoms but I'm exhausted I just want to sleep all the time. I took a FRER this morning and it was negative. If I were pregnant wouldn't it be positive by now? Should I pretty much count myself out? I either need a reality check or some words of encouragement because I feel like it's another cycle failed, I feel like the test would be positive at 11 dpo if I'm pregnant?