Baby or Man?

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Am I being bitchy?  My BF has looked at more clothing items and other items for himself then our baby. The baby will not be here for at least another month or two. However I feel like he should be focused only on the baby. Am I being ridiculous should I let him browse and enjoy life first? Should I be worried that he's not going to care about the baby and put her needs first was she gets here?  Does any of this mean that he won't be a good dad to her when she gets here?

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Unless you guys were specifically shopping for baby i don't think its a big deal. We were looking at baby stuff the other day and my SO found a really nice pair of shoes we ended up buying lol.

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Men get ready for baby at a different pace than we do. I wouldn't get too mad at him looking at clothes for himself.

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My SO and I definitely look at baby stuff, but we also get things for yourself and eachother too.

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Before our daughter was born it seemed like my husband had no interest in buying baby stuff especially clothes. Now that she's here he's always buying her things. I think guys are just different when it comes to preparing.

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I don't think it means he will be a bad dad but I do understand where you are coming from. I also feel like looking up clothe and things like that is part of our nesting process. But try to have him look at baby clothe with you, maybe ask him to choose which outfit he likes more.

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