My nurse told me I'm too fat..

I was 155 when I got pregnant and now I'm 200. I gained 45lbs . She was like " you need to stop gaining weight, your labor is gonna be harder, your too fat ". Even tho I wanted to ignore it, it just made me feel like shit . Maybe thats why I'm almost 40 weeks and there's no sign of my baby coming ... Because I'm too fat. 😟