Stuck in the middle

Alea • 💙Baby boy born March 2018 : Baby girl born September 2019 💜
So I recently had surgery, my parents flew out for it to help out while my SO is at work. This is the first time they have my SO, the first meeting went alright but everything went downhill from there. My dad started joking around and making comments that made my SO uncomfortable. Because of the my SO has expressed that he doesn't want to see them (has no issue with my mom), but I miss my parents buts my SO wants nothing to do with them... They only have a couple of days left and I want to see them, I don't know what to do.