my boyfriend thinks its sooooooo easy to get pregnant?

Question

Its not easy, And hes trying to plan put when he wants to have a baby and what month, but thats not the way it goes .... Like he said "next month we can have a baby " and i just laughed because that wont happen , it takes time to conceive so how do i tell him that it takes time to get pregnant and you cant plan out pregnancy?

Answer

I'm still trying to get that across to my SO. I've even started going into detail like explaining that there has to be an egg waiting in order for it to be fertilized and make its way to my uterus. I think he's starting to understand that we can have sex a bunch of times when I'm not on my period but what counts is when I'm ovulating. I tell him when it's my fertile window now and we try more through that week vs the other weeks. So maybe find a website or a book or something for him to read so he can understand how it really works lol good luck!

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You can sorta time it but that's more of like, "if we conceive in these three months we can have the baby in the spring during these three months." But even then it takes a lot of work for that to even happen. I would suggest talking to him after you do a bit of research so you have solid proof as to why he isn't totally on track. If he doesn't seem to believe you or trust your claims it could help to find a few medical sites and/or books from the library and show him the proof directly.

my boyfriend thinks its sooooooo easy to get pregnant?

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