My least favorite phrase...

I am so sick of everyone saying not to stress and it will happen. I had a miscarriage in February and would have been due in October. I have had no luck gettinh pregnant, and not thinking about it or stressing about it isnt an option. It is constantly on my mind. How do people not understand this? Every time i hear those words i really just want to hurt someone.

There is actually no guarantee that it will happen. I have wanted to be a mom for a very long time. And this is one of my worst fears, never being able to have a child of my own. And yes i am aware of adoption and fostering, those are on my mind as well. But i want to experience my child growing inside me. Getting bigger and bigger, and even getting more uncomfortable as i get bigger, the pain of delivery. I want to experiennce this and the thought of not being able to is crippling. So no i can't just let it go and not stress about it. But thanks for the most unhelpful advise!