WHY? Fed up! 😭

Question

Starting to dislike pregnant people in general I'm a kind hearted lady.. But we've been trying for 4 years for our second baby.. And where ever I seem to look SOMEONE is pregnant. Of course I'm happy for each individual but it breaks my heart I'm not in their shoes..  Specially when I see my "friends" moaning about pregnancy .. And how it was unplanned.. 😡

AF is due tomorrow another bfn.
I'm having one of those emotional days😭 I can't speak to anyone else about how I'm feeling only glow and my husband 😢

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Everyone has to remember... Everything happenes for a reason AND in their own time.. Maybe when you finally have the child it will soon necome a famous racer or something 😹😊

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Honestly I understand your frustration and I used to feel the same way but it's not fair to feel that way towards these other woman, example I tried for a year and had to have surgery because of my endometriosis to get pregnant and I was so overjoyed yet a girl my husband is friends with had been trying for her second baby and apparently wasn't too happy when she found out I was pregnant and tried to tell him I read the test wrong and was just in general pretty negative and distant towards me until she got pregnant when I was 6 months and her attitude totally did a 180 and she was all excited for me to have a baby now that she was pregnant and it was really annoying because if the situation was reversed I would have never treated her that way I just think if you can't be genuinely happy and supportive of someone else during their moment of happiness (because yes it is THEIR moment, not yours) then why should anyone do the same for you when it's finally your turn?

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Me too Hun! Been trying for 4 years for my 1st and still nothing. Everyone I know has 1 or even has 2 and I'm like ok!! My dads wife is pregnant and I just get so annoyed and frustrated when I see her, or when my dad brings up the whole pregnancy or wondering if it's a boy or girl. 
Just hard. And sad Bc they don't notice how it upsets you and not many people in real life know how you feel. I'm glad I have glow. I'm here if you ever need to talk💖💖

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Same here, infertility has turned me bitter.

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I understand your frustration and hurting heart. I get pretty down when I get invited to my girl friends baby showers and children's birthday parties. I have a good friend who got pregnant on her first try for her 1st baby who is now 1, she's trying for number 2. Her family goal have absolutely nothing to do with mine, and it's not her fault I don't have my own little one yet. Still my heart sunk at the thought of her trying, I guess I'm afraid she will beat me to the punch. I won't dislike her if she becomes prego, but I'm sure I'll be emotional if she gets a BFP before me. I keep praying and trying to stay positive. I hope we both get our BFPs soon, but I'm sure that when we do ... There will be some woman out there somewhere feeling the same way we do right now. Let's try to enjoy BD and this time with our SO, because sometime in the future it won't just be the 2 of us 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 baby dust to you ✨✨✨

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I totally understand you! We are "only" trying for 8 months but seeing everyone around me getting pregnant or having a little baby totally brings  me down. And worst at work I now have to cover for a colleague that is four months pregnant because she can't take the stress at work and only can work for a couple of hours a day...

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Praying that you get your BFP. So soon!  I say sex everyday all month. Cant hurt

WHY? Fed up! 😭

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