My family knows I'm not having a shower, they insist that I do but I just don't want to! Anyways, my cousin wants me to assign her to something that I need, I told her that I don't have any shampoos or lotions, she said no, she wants to get something big. I don't know what because I already have bed, changing table, playpen, and my moms getting a traveling system. I've been coupons and have lots of diapers and wipes also! Any suggestions ladies?