Finished having kids?

Question

How did you know you were done ? Was it just the amount you wanted or did you just know you didn't want any more ?
Fiancé says he only wants 2 (even tho before I fell pregnant this time he was cool with 3) and I don't know if I'm okay with that or not but I need to know asap because he wants a vacectomy when this baby is born (2nd baby)

I know financially 2 would be best , owning/renting home would be easier to find and cheaper 
Could still have a sedan with 5 seats because I wouldn't have to worry about a kids friend staying over and all of us needing to be in car 
Can go back to work sooner
More money to spend and spoil them with 
But I don't know if I'd feel like our family is complete with 2 kids 
Any advice and expericnce would be greatly appreciated

Answer

If you have to ask then you aren't ready to make that decision yet. 
You'll know when you're done.

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Been trying 10 years with alot of heartbreak along the way. I have a 11 yr old girl. Expecting a healthy boy at christmas time. Ive suffered so badly in the last two pregnancies especially the last i was in intensive care for 27 weeks and declared critical numerous times then lost my son at 23wks 5days. Didnt think this pregnancy would be as bad as my son was poorly but i was far wrong im really bad but managed to narrowly stay out of intensive care this time. This has put me off having anymore i pysically cant do this ever again so im blessed and done afterwards.

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This will be #4 and I wanted 6.... My body can not do it anymore.  I will be 35 in January and it breaks my heart. I am in so much pain everyday that I know I can't have anymore. I have to have my tubes tied to stop myself.

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Consider your age and financial status..
If you can afford baby number three go for it... If you want a large family but he doesn't maybe sit down with him and talk about it... I am 25 this is baby number four.. we are done!! We went for more than what we wanted 2-3 was our limit but we had all girls and we wanted the boy and baby number four is our boy and we are excited but nervous hoping all goes well.. and now either e gets a vasectomy or I get tubes tied but we are truly done both financially and age wise I'm done lol 4 kids feels like too much for me and even doe their adorable and you just want to have tiny little miracles around you all the time babies need time lots of it and my daughter's are getting bigger and I am trying to focus on them if I keep having kids it won't be easy to give all your kids time and love.. except maybe some moms out there that are like super moms that make time out of anything I swear when I have this routine going and all goes well shit can go bizarre in seconds lol!! But over all my girls are good babies and very helpful and kind and like every child playful and have bad days too..

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