Need to vent...

Ok ladies so it's time for me to vent. I mean no disrespect to anyone but I am so tired of people complaining about being pregnant or complaining/bragging on how they got pregnant so quickly. Yes everyone is excited for you but really... Have some compassion for those that aren't so lucky. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and trying to start a family. Doctor check ups go well and I've been put on fertility medicine to jump start our process. It has been so long, so many prayers, and tons of money spent. Be sensitive to those around you that have been trying to get pregnant. Just because you can pop them out like a toaster doesn't mean we all can. 
...vent over 
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You have to remember that your issue is a personal one and something you have to deal with yourself.  No one has to be sensitive to your feelings, it's something you have to figure out.  I understand.  It took me 2 years, a miscarriage and numerous tests and Dr. Appts until I got a pregnancy that stuck and if I want to complain about morning sickness, being tired, fatigue and so on a pregnancy app of all places, I most certainly will do so.

Se

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Pregnancy takes a massive toll on the body. Women are allowed to complain about the pain, discomfort & exhaustion that come with pregnancy. As long as they arnt doing it in the TTC group you have no reason to hate on them. Yes some women can conceive quickly but just because you can't and are struggling with that doesn't mean there should be hatred towards those who can. Ttc can be a struggle and be hard and take a huge mental toll but hating on others for having a different struggle (such a having a very difficult pregnancy) is wrong. Everyone has a struggle in life. 

VH

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Pregnancy is difficult and painful for a lot of women. Your hard time isn't more important than theirs.