Ever since I met my SO I have gained about 5kilos and lately he makes comments about it. He hasn't openly come out and said I'm fat but he insinuates it(he did once but not directly. He said something like "sitting at home and getting fat isn't cool"😧😧). I mean it's true but it just makes me feel so down cause I just feel like he doesn't find me attractive anymore. He tells me that he dreamt about me but I was slimmer and stuff like that. I know he loves me but it just hurts.

But then again, it's motivation to get sexy back😄 i really love him and I'll work at losing the weight cause it bothers me as well.

What do you ladies think?