I've been fighting my ex for years for support. My son has a disability and gets ssi and I have him full time, his dad takes him on Saturday nights. He's never paid me anything for him. Never helped with clothes, nothing. I took him to court for support, he threw a fit when they suggested he pay $480 a month, so I said how about $200? He lost his mind and told me I don't deserve it and that if I need financial help that he will take his son then.