Just not enough...

I am always in the mood to get it on woth my boyfriend. When we are cuddling watching a movie and I get turned on ,I tease him a lil bit. And yet he ignores me or smacks my hand like Im a child and tells me to watch the movie. We hardly have time to do it , so when we do have time ... we still dont do it! It drives me crazy and it also makes me insecure . Like something about me isnt good enough for him. He tells me that Im perfect and yet I cant make him cum from a BJ but watching a porn video finishes him?