Nothing is going the way I hoped...

PLAN A: We were planning on getting married September 23, 2017 in Door County WI. But the more we planned it the more difficult, stressful and expensive it became. It would be a 6 hour drive for family members and they would obviously then have to stay overnight and we felt like we were just asking too much of ourselves and our family and close friends. Not to mention we felt like we HAD to invite certain people even if we didn't want them there and we really don't want a lot of people at our wedding. especially people we don't even like! 

PLAN B: after the crazy amount of stress we decided- fuck it let's elope! So we planned to get married at the GRAND CANYON! A 25 hour road trip stopping in Denver and Utah and beautiful camping sites that my fiancé and I have always wanted to visit. We invited my MOH and his Best man to come along and they both agreed (even tho they are exs!) but now my MOH can't make it and his best man is saying he's going to bring his girlfriend of a few months. Her and I get along fine but she isn't special to me like my MOH is. So now I have to have my special day and all these great memories with a stranger while my husband gets to have someone special with him. 

If we postpone then his best man can't make it as he is leaving the state on October 1st to start navy training. Also the day we are leaving (last week of September) is also the day our friends family is throwing his going away party. Everything felt perfect and now it's falling thru. We extended the invite to the rest of our wedding party and nobody can make it. (Understandable) and we can't leave sooner for the elopement to be on a weekend so they can fly out. 

PLAN C: something? Anything. I'm so sad - I know it will be a good trip but I was really hoping someone near and dear to me (besides my future husband) would be there. 😞 Obviously he and I are the only ones who matter but let's be honest it'd be nice to have one of my ride or die girls there too. I need them just as much as I need him. And I don't think it's fair for me to post pone it cause then he doesn't have a special person for him on his wedding day. But right now I don't either. 😓😓

What plan should we stick to??