💔 I need opinions

I know this has nothing to do with becoming pg or anything to that but idk who else to talk to. I just recently lost my mom 😔😢 we have been living up north of Texas for 4 years and she was living with me. She was my world, We did her funeral back in our hometown (south of Texas). I moved up north because my husband wanted a change we don't have family up there so now that my mom is gone I want to move back with the rest of the family down south. He doesn't want to move back because he has 2 good jobs but doesn't spend much time with me and our daughter because he's always working and when he's off he's always asleep. I was ok with is before because my mom was with us but now that she not idk how I'm going to take it, her not being there with us and him not even spending time with us, he said he is but I know he's not. What should I do, stay or move back? My daughter loved being surround by her cousins because she has no one up north. My family and friends down south suggested for us to move back because it's going to be hard for me since I don't have anyone up there. Idk what to do.