I think women that have never had a csection shouldn't try to tell other women what a Csection is like. I think it scares women who may have to get one and causes unnecessary stress about delivery. So what you've "known" someone who had one and it was bad hell i know someone who got hit by a bus walking across the street that doesn't mean i am an expert on how to avoid being hit by a bus. Its annoying. Let's all just relish in the joys of being pregnant and our own personal delivery method.