My question is would you be pissed if you got cut open during childbirth and left with a scar (painful for some) without your concent? My story of why I'm not pissed is below.

In my case I got cut because my son stopped breathing during labor and me and baby got tired so I got told 'this will hurt a little' followed by a sharp stab (injections) and a huge cut it was done in seconds and my baby was delivered still not breathing a few minutes later even after oxygen and chest pumps until he got tipped upside down and took his first breath. That was the scariest 3 minutes if my life seeing my innocent baby not breathing. I'm actually very great full that I got cut without my concent (I wouldn't have realize the dangers and would have said no had I been asked either before of during labor) I wouldn't like to think of the outcome if it had took any longer for my baby to be born. 3 years later I have a healthy happy baby but also a lot of discomfort and pain since getting pregnant again which made me look up about an episiotomy which led me to find that it's supposed to be consensual. I disagree if it's life or death for mama or baby i think midwifes should be able to do this.