fed up 😞

When I planned a family I imagined it would be A LOT smaller!!!! but I'm not just having a baby and it's not just mine or my husbands... It's his WHOLE FUCKING FAMILY'S!!! They are too in my face about things. Telling me not to be a snob and buy second hand and cheap and stuff. Excuse me. I want the best for my child, if you think that makes me look like a snob then you can f**k yourselves!! They want to buy the pram, the cot, Moses basket, bedding, cheap nappies and wipes I've said thanks but if we wanted help buying we would ask, but you can buy some clothes and boots and things . But the reply I got was 'tough we are buying them anyway' I'm just so fed up. Saying that my husbands family is going to cut the cord he won't get a chance, they are all going to be at the birth I said no way it's just my mother and husband. They didn't like it and kept on and on and on. IM ONLY 6 WEEKS!!! Give me a break!!!!!! It's the first baby in this family and we are only 20 so they tend to look down on us as kids. We don't need their help I have my family and my husband. They are stressing me out to the MAX!! And one thing I've asked them not to do when it's here, and that's NOT to kiss it's lips and NOT to put their fingers in its mouth. they are not very hygienic. But no that gets ignored and they say 'yes we can kiss it, we are family? I can put my finger in its mouth my hands are always clean. IM THE MOTHER AND WHEN I GIVE YOU RULES AS SIMPLE AS THAT I EXPECT YOU TO LISTEN! what's your opinions?