PEOPLE😡😡

So basically me and my OH arranged for his parents to have our daughter today, we called them at 1 and they said they he planned to go to the pub today.. Then after a long agreement they decided to come and get her 15mins later and take them with her, I get worried, I'm a mum! So I was worried about my 7 week old baby being in a pub.. I saw another girl in our flats and she asked what was wrong and I explain to her, she then got defensive accusing me of calling her a bad mum because she would let her son in a pub.. I didn't!! I feel she can do what she wants with her son! Then when his dad turned up he also asked what was wrong and my OH explain he then said "if be more worried about her being here" (here meaning our family home)! Have I got a right to be angry? I guess everything and everyone just got on top of me ...