Boyfriend obsessed with sex.

I cannot stand it, I do not enjoy sex anymore because it when he wants it and one position me on top, well I get tired of the same shit, oh if I'm not in the mood, there goes the name calling and him breaking shit. He says if women would shut there mouth and learn to do what the fuck there told there wouldn't be any problems. I'm only 18. I love him but I'm a women and no one needs shit like this.