another option... Instead Softcups?

Ok so I tried preseed, tried those pills that I can't remember the name but you take the one pill twice a day to loosen mucus and the other pill the other days which is like a prenatal. Well neither seemed to helped me out.. I read online people used those AF softcups after their significant others 'finished' in them (sorry I forget the correct abbreviations to use..) to help keep the baby makers inside without coming out. Has anyone tried it???? Has it worked for you?! I know it only takes 1 sperm to work its way up there but I feel like it just pours out of me (I know it's supposed to and going to come out)