I feel like I'm terrible at being pregnant. Is that stupid? My boyfriend is constantly having a go at me for moaning at things or when I get emotional, he says I shouldn't be this emotional because it's so early. This morning he's said something particularly hurtful. So I'm only 8 weeks 5days pregnant but already the bloat has me not fitting into any trousers, I'm having to use the eleastic band around the button trick, covering it with a belly band and long Tshirts or jumpers for work. The fatigue also means I am so far behind on all the house washing I have basically no "comfortable" (read big) knickers, only thongs etc which lets face it I'm permanently uncomfortable at the moment anyway why would I choose to add to it by wearing these type of knickers at the moment? I am a lab technician and am pretty active during my day to day activities. So my boyfriend says he doesn't care that I'm wearing thongs to work it's that when I bend over everyone can see them, I don't even know how he works that one out?! I work mostly alone all my lab researchers sit in the office at their computers, I am petite and so the lab coats I wear reach my shins, and I'm not being funny but the whole reason I wear the belly band is so people can't see my trousers are undone in the first place so they certainly can't see my knickers when I bend over. So frustrated it's such a stupid argument, and I know he doesn't mean it and he is probably coming out in sympathy bitchiness and also stress, but it just feels like I'm really failing at being pregnant and it makes me want to cry constantly.