So I've been seeing a bunch of posts saying things like "my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex and it's so annoying" and this is an issue that bothers me a lot. Just because someone is a guy doesn't mean they don't have all the same rights that we as girls have. They teach girls that we can always say no to sex in any circumstance and they try to teach boys that they should understand when a girl says no, but nobody seems to understand that it goes both ways. If a guy doesn't want to have sex, whether it be you're really horny and he isn't in the mood, or if things start escalating and then he backs down, or even during sex, he is allowed to say no, and nobody has any right to be annoyed with him. EVERYONE is in control of their own bodies, and nobody else is allowed to dictate what other people should do with it.