I could use some encouragement!

These last month has probably been one of the hardest month of my life. Several weeks ago I got my first uti/kidney infection and it totally sucked. I then broke out with terrible sores and I didn't want to say what I thought they were but it got worse. I went to my boyfriend in tears not sure how to ask him if there is anyway he had herpes. I've known him for 22 of my 24 years. I knew he has recently been tested 2 months before we got together and everything was fine. Well I just found out a week ago that I have both type 1 and 2 herpes. What sucks about all of this is I only lost my virginity 2 months ago. He is currently in jail because of his ex which I just found out today wrote him a letter bragging about how she has herpes and gave it to him. He has never had an outbreak which before talking with my doctor I didn't know you could spread the virus without even having an outbreak. He is extremely upset because he would have never had sex with me if he knew. I am just over here by myself feeling as though I can't talk to anyone about this. All I want to do is cry. HELP!