Am I crazy or is this pretty inconsiderate?

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Don't get me wrong, I love him, but it's 12:30am I'm tired and my fiancé has a bunch of people over playing music, drinking, etc. I can hear everything.

It's my first trimester and although I don't have many symptoms yet I still really appreciate a good night's sleep ( I'm only trying to grow a baby here...)

Not sure if my hormones might be making be extra mad but I'm furious, yet at the same time I don't want to be controlling... ugh.

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It's inconsiderate IF he knows you have a problem with it. Have you expressed that you don't want people over after a certain time?

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My first trimester I was EXTREMELY tired. Just ask him to keep it down, especially before his friends get there. You don't even have to look like the bad guy.

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I would be pissed even if I WASN'T pregnant. Lol. That's way inconsiderate of him. Tell him next time to go to one of their houses.

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You need a lot of sleep in the first trimester. It is probably the most critical part of your pregnancy. The less stress the better. Your hormones are probably making it much worse which is perfectly normal, but you are by no means being inconsiderate or selfish in wanting a good nights sleep. I slept an average of 10 hours in my first trimester. Wish I could now. I'm in my 3rd now with twins and I'm lucky to get 6 hours of actual sleep. He needs to understand that you need your rest and needs to be respectful of that. You are creating a human! He may not understand, lord knows my husband didn't and still doesn't half the time because he's not experiencing it. But you do need to tell him how you feel.

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Me and my so had this issue even before I was pregnant. I like my space and asked before we have any visitors over we talked about it first bc He was ALWAYS inviting people over.

Am I crazy or is this pretty inconsiderate?

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