Mother in Law issues! Long Post, thank you to anyone who reads the whole thing! ❤️

My mother in law and I always got along. I was so happy that we had a great relationship because family is very important to my husband. She is a lactation consultant so she was very helpful by giving me tips and helping me prep for breastfeeding once my son was born. Our relationship was so strong and it made me happy. But as soon as my son was born she stopped being my mother in law and turned into lactation consultant 24/7. Every time she would call she would ask how he was latching and how I was doing with breastfeeding. She rarely asked how he was doing in general or how I was handling motherhood. My son was only a day old when he stopped latching so I exclusively pumped. He was only a week old when my supply started to go down. We never told her because we didn't want the stress and the pressure. I ended up not being able to produce anymore when my son was only a few weeks old. My husband's ex (they share a 3 year old together) saw me using formula over skype one night when my stepdaughter and my husband were skyping and told my MIL. Ever since then she has treated me as if I'm doing something wrong. She accused me of ruining my chances of breastfeeding by introducing the bottle so soon. I had no choice! My son had to eat. She told me that she has never heard of a mother not being able to produce. My own mother couldn't. When my MIL came down to visit and meet my son for the first time she brought up breastfeeding the whole time! My husband backed me up but she kept talking about it. She even said that her lactation group is doing research on the "risks of formula" and that she is going to send us what they find. My sister and I were formula fed and we are perfectly fine. She definitely treats me and my son differently than my stepdaughter and her mother. It hurts me because it will effect my son when he gets older. She didn't even act excited to see us when she came to visit.