I guess this is a rant? Need some uplifting words..

Question

I use to have a 6 pack and very fit all around so I've been having a really hard time liking my body at all with being pregnant. I sent this photo to my husband saying how much I just fell in love with my bump and he told me he's honestly ready for me to be back to normal he also said he loves the way I look now but now I'm honestly getting pretty upset because I just started being happy with my pregnant body. I'm only 25 weeks along so I still have a ways to go dealing with this...and he texted me back saying "I'm not getting into this with you I love you and the way you look now drop it babe" after I said I didn't know what to say to his previous comment... I'm very upset :(

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Why haven't men all taken a class on this yet?! The only appropriate adjective for your wife while she is pregnant is "beautiful". "Goddess" and "amazing" are acceptable as well. How hard is that?!

Anyways, you look awesome and have nothing to be upset about with your body. It's beautiful and you're creating a miracle 😍

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Girl you look amazing for being pregnant. I hope I look that good when I'm pregnant! I'm sure your husband was just kidding, but I know it hurts sometimes when someone is kidding and you think they mean it!! Just think you have a baby growing inside of you that you'll get to me very soon, and then you can work on getting your body back!!

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I think it's his "man way" of saying he loved your body then, and he loves your body now too! The pregnant body and the non-pregnant body are (as you're well aware!) two VERY different things, but each equally beautiful in their own way, and let's face it hun... you are ROCKING the pregnant look!! You're gorgeous, and I promise, no matter how big you get, those abs WILL return!! I was the same as you prior to all my pregnancies... petite, fit, 5'3", with 6 pack abs, and each and every time, I recovered quickly and got my abs & pre pregnancy body back fast. Even today, my hubby says he's jealous of my abs and can't believe 3 children came out of me! LOL! So while I don't blame you one bit for having a "wtf moment" at your hubby's comment, I assure you you're BEAUTIFUL (and I'm sure he agrees!), and you'll be back to your old self in no time once baby arrives! And heck, you might even miss that bump when it's all said and done!! Please don't take to heart what he said... Men are silly, and those preggo hormones can make things seem worse than they are. You're absolutely STUNNING, and pregnancy 100% agrees with you!!!

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Men hate discussing their partners body.. Especially when she has a negative view of herself because he can only say he thinks you look great so many times. But you look awesome, keep liking yourself and try to appreciate what your body is doing! Men are silly, don't let it bother you :)

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Forgive him. Me don't understand what we go through. You look amazing

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Don't mind him, guys always say the first thing that comes out of their mouths and 99% it's something stupid they didn't mean, but they are not very prudent, so I would say, don't pay too much attention, if you love your bump, enjoy it then. I'm pretty sure all he wants is to see you happy and maybe he'll do something to make it up you when he comes home.

I guess this is a rant? Need some uplifting words..

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