What do you guys think?

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So I mentioned to my husband this morning that for the next baby I'm considering a water birth. My first child was born in the hospital, but I delivered him all natural. My view is as long as there are no predicted complications, I love the idea! He thinks absolutely not.

Now, normally, I would say "my body, my choice" and he usually agrees. However, it being his child's wellbeing, he just doesn't feel safe. He knows there can still be complications with the birthing process and he doesn't want to take the risk. I understand, but I'm not scared at all. I'm more positive everything will be okay.

Anyone ever had these opposing views with their SO?

And I'll add a picture to show off what a healthy baby I've made. He's amazing in all the ways!

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Some hospitals have tubs/blow up pools in their birthing suites. This could be a win win option.

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I would find a birthing center that does water births. You can have the experience, as well as the medical help there if it's needed. Maybe that will ease his mind about it too

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Why take the risk? Besides, you can water birth in hospital.

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I feel strongly about supporting the woman in whichever way she wants to give birth. She's the one that physically goes through it, whether it be major surgery or a vaginal birth. I also feel strongly that women's bodies are meant to give birth and know what to do, except western society has other motivations and most women aren't in tune with their bodies for a variety of reasons. Yes, complications happen, but they also happen during hospital monitored births as well. It's a statistical fact. Do you!!

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Look for a hospital that allows water births

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As long as your well trained, schooled for 12+ years doctor says you have a normal healthy pregnancy,  I would stick with 'your body, your choice' Tell your husband to chill out, you need to birth this baby is the most comfortable way you feel you can, all he needs to do is hold your hand.

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