Would u be offended/upset?

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I'm 4 weeks 3 days pregnant and me and my boyfriend have been into it because he said he will never have sex with me without a condom again! He also said that having sex now since I'm pregnant is "weird".. I've told him multiple times that it's healthy for the baby for us to have sex, and whether it's witha condom or not it won't change anything. I'm honestly offended he would even say that to me! Am I wrong for feeling this way? Btw I'm 17 & he's 18 (years old).

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You should respect that he doesn't want to have sex while you're pregnant, I don't think it's right of you to try and push him. Some men don't like it and some do.

As for the condom thing he's being a bit immature about how he said it but I'm sure it's because he clearly wasn't ready for a baby and doesn't want it to happen ever again.

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Without being rude but he's only 18. No doubt he still thinks if you have sex the baby will grab his penis or poke his head so he/she is born with a deformed head. He's just being immature about the situation but at the same time it is his choice. Imagine if you didn't want to have sex but he kept asking you and telling you it was fine. We'd all be calling him an asshole 🙈 just give him time

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He's young so he prob just doesn't want to have another baby I think he meant he won't have sex with you without a condom after baby. N some guys do find pregnant sex wierd n different idk why I'm a female. Just let him have time to process the news

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Some guys take a bit to realize the baby doesn't even know what's going on even full term. That early on, the baby is so small and you don't even look pregnant it's just like before.

Some guys are weird like that. My baby daddy (before we broke up) said he didn't want to have sex once I was showing. Which is understandable.

However, the whole not having sex with you the whole time is a bit extreme. It might just take him some time.

The condom thing is stupid. Specially now that you're pregnant. I get after you deliver because he doesn't want another child (most likely meant not until you guys are ready).

He's probably just freaking out. My baby daddy is still having some freak out days and we're just under 20 weeks. 
He freaked out so bad he left me for his ex girlfriend (I think it's what he had to do, and hopefully one day soon will come back and make things work) but anywho, by the sounds of it, he's hust scared. Guys don't have that maternal instinct that we have. It takes a bit to develop, specially if they weren't ready or planning for a baby.

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Lots of people have sex while pregnant but you shouldn't be mad at him for being uncomfortable with it, he's allowed to feel that way. Also how is having sex good for the baby?

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