Was I wrong?
I'm 13 days PP and doing a cultural PP ritual, part of it is home confinement for 30 days. Anyway my husband got really upset with me earlier in the day over issues he has with my dad. We're currently staying at my parents place but we live right across the street. We need formula and pads and being that I'm on home confinement I can't leave the house to buy it. We have Google Express but the earliest they can deliver is tomorrow but I need the items today. My friend has it too so I asked her when I need to order by to get same day delivery. She was at the gym that is close to a Target and offered to buy the items and drop it off (she knows I'm in home confinement). My husband apparently fell asleep back at our place but woke up to see the message, he said he could get the items. I told her over the phone that he said he could get it but she said she was already at Target. I get a separate message from him telling me that not only do we inconvenience ourselves but now we also inconvenience our friends and that now he looks like a "lazy father who doesn't want to pick up items for his daughter." My friend told me that she's going out to dinner and that she's getting a ride from our place because her friend will already be in our neighborhood picking up his wife so she's technically not going out of her way to drop things off.
The way I see it, I didn't ask her to, she offered and even when I told her my husband could do it, she said she was already there.
I just feel like I can't catch a break and that I'm always doing something wrong in my husband's eyes.
Am I in the wrong? Any advice would be appreciated.
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