Just found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me with his ex. I've never experienced this pain, it physically hurts. I'm so confused and shocked, I had no idea at all until this girl messaged me. I felt bad for even believing his "crazy ex girlfriend" that he would do something like that to me. But then he told me it was true. The man I was in love with, who I thought was in love with me was fucking and texting his ex, just a day before we spent the day together at a concert. I gave up so much of my time and heart for him. It took all I had to end things and not give him another chance. How does this shit happen? And how does someone ever recover from this pain? Any tips besides "give it time"?