maternity photos frustrated

So I feel like a whale. We are supposed to be doing maternity photos on Saturday and I've planned to have my hair and make up done since even on a good day I suck at it. But I can't figure out what to wear. Everything makes me feel huge and ugly. DH is no help. He just says everything looks "fine" which is clearly not true. I know this is a stupid thing to get upset over but we struggled for years to get pregnant. I've had several surgeries, so many injections, ultrasounds, doctors appointments, medications, and even had to gain 15 pounds before even getting pregnant. My body has not been my own for close to 4 years and I just want to look and feel pretty for once. I'm so greatful for our little girl im just feeling so stressed and sad right now.