Could i be in labor

Jassy • Mommie of 2 👼 and expecting my third 👣 its a blessing being a mother 😊
If i have pressure in my crotch every time i walk , get off bed , or squat it hurts me alot i have to hold on to the walls or whatever is around me to stand still is that normal or what?also when me and my husband had sex 2 days ago when he berly went in it felt wierd like if he touched the babys head and it hurt me could i be dilated and not notice that im in labor?