should I ask!?!?!?

Question

Okay, so in Febuary my ex boyfriend and I had sex, it was protected, we were together for 9 months, but I didn't want to have sex with him, he kept asking and kept asking so I finally said whatever, I had turned thirteen in January, well I wanna ask my mother if I can start using birth control, but I don't intend on having sex again, I would just rather be safe if I do give in to someone again. How do I ask her without making her think that I plan on or I am having sex?

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Never let someone push you into sex that is something special that you can only give out of love you wouldnt want to give it to everyone so make sure you pick carefully.
And if they say they'll leave then they weren't right for you and you should tell your mom trust me we were all young once and scared to tell our parents but it's for the best she'll be able to protect you and keep you safe if she knows and she can educate you yes she'll be mad but she will love you cuz she is your mom you should tell her I wish that I would have when I was your age

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If someone tries to get you to give in to sex with them it is the wrong choice in a partner. I had to go through a lot of awful ppl to finally find someone who respects me and actually is appalled at the notion of one sided selfish sex. Wait for someone who respects you.

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Birth control regulates periods so if your period is irregular there's your explanation. But tell her. Moms understand.

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First and foremost, you should never feel 'pushed into sex'. Anybody who puts pressure on you is not a good person and you need to keep your dignity and pride and not let people use you.

Secondly, whilst birth control pills protect from pregnancy they do not protect you from STIs. Your sexual health is of utmost importance and should always be considered. Take it from someone who caught an STI from a boyfriend years ago. You don't even have to sleep around to catch one. Have a childhood, wait a until the right person comes along and then you can both discuss your options as a couple. I lost my virginity at a very young 15 to someone I didn't care about but because i thought it was expected of me. I didn't do it again until I was almost 17 but it was with someone I really cared about and I always regretted that he wasn't my first. Good luck.

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Girl just say flat out no!! If you don't want it but they keep on block them or tell an adult because 1 that's sexual harassment and possibility of rape. Don't want it? Say no! Plus you are WAAAAAY to young for sex.

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Well since your asking, I mean you are way to young for sex. I started birth control at thirteen to hold regulate my periods. Your on her for advise and for help. Once again, you are WAYYYYY TO YOUNG for sex, and you NEED to say no to those guys that keep asking. If they get mad or anything it's because they don't actually like you they just want sex, and that's not good. You need to sit down with your mom and just discuss everything. Like you said, it's better safe but just remember birth control isn't 100%. Look at it this way, if you have sex and get pregnant what are you going to do? Your thirteen, go play outside or something. Don't have sex this young, because if you get pregnant then your mom will def be upset and mad.

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How old was he?

should I ask!?!?!?

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