tampons? pads? or diva cups?

So I'm heading into my dirty thirties soon, and as I get older I find the idea of using tampons less appealing. something about having " something shoved up me" for a few hours just doesn't seem healthy/right/feasible idk I haven't found the right word lol. I've started using pads over night a few yrs back thinking of making the plunge to full pad but not quite ready to feel like I'm wearing a diaper or worrying if it's noticeable. Any thoughts? Comments? Have any of youz used the diva cup?  Considering that as well as alternative