PLEASE I NEED ADVICE! I'm pregnant and don't know what to do!

I had unprotected sex with some guy I met when I first moved to Hawaii within my fertile window and I took a test confirming I'm pregnant. He is currently in Costa Rica competing and I just texted him telling him I took the test and it came out positive. He responded saying he told his mom about it and she will pay for my abortion pill. This really irritated me because he didn't even CONSIDER that I would want to keep it. I have adenomyosis so it should be hard to have a kid and I told him that would be the one of the major reasons I would want to keep it. He didn't really take that into consideration as you can tell, considering he's assuming just because he wants to get rid of it so do I. He is also, in my opinion, not really taking responsibility for our mistake, Instead he's letting his mom take care of it like I'm some piece of trash mistake she's going to sweep under the rug for him and act like it never happened. I'm sorry if I'm overthinking this but honestly it kinda makes me feel like shit that he's trying to get as far away from the situation as possible while I have no choice but to be stuck with it alone since all my friends live back in LA and I can't tell my parents, so I'm basically alone with no one by my side to talk to and support me. After I told him I might not want to get rid of it he says, "Well I have zero money. I don't know what kind of money you expect out of me. I live with my parents. I'm away from home competing most of the time as well." He just assumes the only reason I want to keep the baby is for his money? To this I responded, "I'm not after you for money, I'm just saying you left little to zero room for any conversation let alone not being willing to support me or be here for me. I know I'm not your girlfriend or even friend but the least you could do is be here to support me. You have no idea how hard this is for me right now to have NO ONE to talk to about this and NO ONE to be here and help me. You're just letting your mom take care of it like I'm some piece of trash mistake she's gonna sweep under the rug. And I might be getting rid of my few shots at having a baby so I would like to talk about the options." After this he just stopped responding and I assumed it was probably because he was in the water competing but it's been 10+ hours. What do I do? Do I wait for him to respond? Should I wait for him to come back to Hawaii after the competition and sit down and talk to him? What would you do? And YES realize this was both of our mistakes, not just his. I'm not blaming him! I'm really REALLY not looking for the snarky or judgy comments that I always get, I just need advice for what I should do NOW, Not what I could've/SHOULDVE done then!

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