Vagina after birth 😫

Julia
Is anyone's vagina literally so tight after your vaginal birth that you can't stand sex??! 
It hurts me so bad that I feel like I'm literally losing my virginity every time my husband makes love to me. He loves it (of course) and brags of how he's gonna get me pregnant again soon. It's been 12 weeks PP and I'm well lubricated down there, however I want to know what I can do to loosen it some....